For an adult reading this you need to try to imagine your behavior being structured . If you can imagine that then you will see the neural pathways that create your behavior, and then you can control it. With Neuro Linguistic Programming, you can do just that. Neuro Linguistic Programming is more commonly known as NLP and was developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s. Since then, many life coaches, psychologists, counselors and other professionals in learning and development have used it`s techniques to great effect.
NLP can be used with children along with coaching by developing them in recognizing their behavioural tendencies. As with all children, being structured can be difficult and even simple things like getting out of bed in the morning and staying in line in school need development. We adults realise the importance of these good habits, whereas children do not.
However, children are fresh with imagination. If they can begin to imagine the effects of NLP then they will not only be able to dictate their own behavior but improve it in such a way that all future behaviours are not just structured in the way that us adults want them to be, but, in a way that can make them achieve all of what their imagination wishes!